yay me!

you know, it is very intimidating when u re waiting for your results through sms results. yes! monash has this services called sms result where u can get the result by your phone. a week before my result been released, i found it really difficult to sleep. probably becoz i ve told everyone that im going to graduate this december and i dont wanna lose face. or probably becoz i hate to repeat another unit in monash anymore. anyhow, that week was really miserable for me. i slept and had a dream about getting my results almost every night, and woke up in the middle of my dream just when i was about to open check my mobile.

it got worse the day it will be released, i slept and i had a dream that i passed all my exam, but i woke up feeling annoyed just to realize that it was a dream. and that happened every 2 hours. how stressful i was? THIS stressful.

right before it was released, i went for dinner to a japanese restaurant, and u see.. i have 2 mobiles, and i thought that my samsung is the mobile that i registered to monash for sms result, and i was playing with my iphone until i received a message:

my.monash portal sms results: mgw2200 D 70, mkw2460 D 70, mkw2600 C 61, mkw3444 D 70.

i didnt expect any sms, so when it came out to the screen, i scream loudly : "yay!!! im graduating yeahhh yeah yeah!!!" and punch the air

and everyone stared at me. i was like "ah sorry, sorry"..................... but then "i dont care yeah!!!!!" then my friend congratulated me, and we went to a bar and i opened a bottle of champagne, real good, real expensive, but its kinda nice to have people that u can celebrate with. wish u guys in malaysia is here. but yay me! im going to graduate this december!

;)




casual or strings attached? (reply to tomz blog)

so here's a topic set by my very best friend tommy in his blog. and he said:


In terms of relationship, and by this i mean a guy being close to a girl or vice versa, in more than friendly manner.

When your relationship comes to a certain point which i think you know where, do you prefer to have it casual? To consider it as something fun to experience, somehow gray, and unlabeled so to say.

OR do you prefer to have it named? (boyfriend, girlfriend, soulmate, love, you name it).


in that case i have to say that this is a case that always happened to me almost all the time. when I am close to someone with or without intention to be with someone, i always want to define the relationship for future's sake. i will say it again. I WILL ALWAYS WANT TO DEFINE MY RELATIONSHIP. i dont want it to be casual. maybe i would, but there's a point in a relationship where u cant be a casual. u gotta do it anyway so why dont u do it from the start?

and here's my reason:
when i went out with one of my exes (is that the plural form?), and there's a time when u want to know what kind of relationship that we were having, i asked "what are we now?" and she said "i just want it to be natural, casual, is status really matters to u?" well at that point u say "it's not that.. it's just.. bla bla bla" and u gave her some reasons, but in my head i was thinking.."hell yea it matters!! where's my limit if i dont know my status?" i mean.. if you are casual, can u hold her hand? can u give her a hug? can u kiss her? it's not that it matters to kiss you or sleep with you, what matters is that we know our limit when we want to express our feeling. is a kiss alrite? is a hug too much? and thats one.

number two is that it gives u an idea on how to react at some events. here's what happened to me before. so we were kinda casual, and she decided to go out with some other guy, a friend that she hasn't met for a long time. how would you react? is that ok if u feel jealous? well she's not yours for u to be jealous. but u feel jealous? what do u do? nothing u can do. u dont have the right to be jealous, but u are just a human being that can feel jealousy. its like a mental torture when this happens, believe me, u wont like it. now when the same thing happens to u, when a girl asked u on a date, what do u do? will u ask for permission? but she's not ur girlfriend why should u be worried? but u feel guilty and uncomfortable going out with someone else. so u decided to tell her and she said u cant go out with her? how would u react? but i guess it depends on how would u want to react at the first place. if u like it this way, then u re a lucky bastard. but if either side feel this way, then this is for u.

and here's the final reason. u want to define ur relationship because u want to be sure on where is this relationship going to. well.. there's this relationship that i had before, and when i asked her what we were, she said this "we will see.. if we are destined together, then no one will be able to break it". what did i say? "ok" and that was the worst answer i had ever given to anyone. i mean helloooooo?? are u dumb or just plain stupid? sorry if im not a believer. sorry if im not a biggest fan of cinderella story. and sorry if im being realistic. but hell, i dont believe in destiny. i believe that we are what we decided yesterday. there's no such thing as destiny in love. i believe that 2 people falling in love and try to work out for their relationship. if u cant give me assurance of where this relationship is going to then u dont want what i want. and thats the end of the story for me. u can say "but i love her". well theres million of men and women out there looking for exactly u and u want to try to do and work it out even though u dont know where is it going to? its ur call buddy, as i said, u are what u decided yesterday. but does he or she really worth trying? if yes then u re a lucky person and u should go for it. but keep my advices in mind.

and that concludes it, what do u think?


comment, follow, rate, define ur relationship

ching vs vincent (LOL)

i was really bored during my study for my exam and i saw my email that Ching tagged me in a note on facebook. hmmm.. what else it might be? guess what.. while i am studying here ALONE, they have friends that they can share some stress (and mess).. but it pretty much cheer me up during this time.

here's some stuff that they do in Malaysia during their exam studying time:

Ching vs Vincent

Ching (ide sipit):
Chinese tea 50 cent
Hati-hati digaruk vincent

Vincent:
Buah delima manis rasanya
dimana berada kalian pada

Ching:
Mandi pagi pakai kunyit
kita lagi di sunway pyramid

Jual sonyericson buat creambath
si vincent bulunya lebat

Vincent:
Kembang asia angsa berbelah
kisahnya hanya sampai seberang
memang wieching bangsa bedebah
bisanya hanya menghina orang

Tong kosong nyaring bunyinya
perut kosong kemana larinya?

Ching:
Ibu kangen sama si reza
kita pengen makan di BBQ Plaza

Jalan berputar di sana sini
Jangan komentar cepetan ke sini

Vincent:
Mau masak mi keburu telat
tunggulah kami ini sudah dekat


Ching vs Olyph

Ching (ide sipit):
Beli apel dikasih pepaya
Olyph gatel sapa yg punya

Olyph:
Ada tamu di ruang makan
Kenapa kamu kurang kerjaan?

Ching (ide sipit):
Ibu tani menanam lagi
Ada apa ni bangun pagi pagi?

Olyph:
Makan kue sambil berjalan
Bukan gue yg berpantun duluan

Ching & Sipit:
Pukul petani pake kayu
Cape ni udahan yu

Olyph:
Bawa galah untuk menyerbu
Kamu kalah sama aku


Bawa cucian di rumah desi
Cukup sekian dan terima kasih

doc: Ching's note


a mini guide to choose university

p.s: this is only my opinion based on the experience that i had, the rest of the decision is up to you, i m only trying to help you to make your decision. a lot of ppl asked me why i want to make this, it is mainly because i dont want you to make the same mistakes that i did. to be honest, joining monash is something that i regret and i'll tell you why later. i know its a long and probably a boring post, but it is very important for u guys to read it, so just spend some times to read it and i think its worth it rather than u spend 4 years in a miserable uni life.

so a lot of my juniors from high school and some are just my friends asked me about how do we choose a good university or college or post graduate overseas - probably weeks ago. it's not that i i dun wanna help you, i was busy with my assignment back then, so i hope this will help you guys to figure yourselves out.

here are some factors to help you to choose a university, with some few examples from my experience:

1. know what you want
today, there are a lot of major and wide areas of study that you can choose, almost are all available. from mechanical engineering (if you like to modify and create a new design of car), fashion design, and even service industry entrepreneurship. it is best if you can be specific about the major that you want to take.
for example: instead of marketing, try entertainment marketing. instead of tourism, try tourism entrepreneurship. instead of engineering, try mechanical engineering. tell your education agency about your specific wants. search it yourself on the internet to double check!!
this is something that i regretted a lot because i never know that entertainment marketing is a major, instead i only said business and they got me monash. so dont make the same mistake!
sometimes people think on how do i know what i want to study. well.. it is easy for me, what do you like to do the most? what is your talent according to you? if you think you are good at speaking, u might want to consider something in communication area. if you think you re good at writing, u might want to try journalism. if you think you re a hardcore gamer, you can try gaming design. as i said, there are a lot of major to choose.



2. know where u wanna go
one of your major decisions that u have to make. think about the geographical area that you are about to go, and how different the culture might impact you and your lifestyle. here's some examples:

case 1.
i chose malaysia because i always thought malaysia offer me with a lot of benefits, there's not much cultural difference, but it is far more open to foreign culture than indonesia. it is also really good coz i met a lot of great friends there and i really miss it there. another stuff is that malaysia is not really expensive compared to singapore, US and australia - 3 of the most countries chosen by my friends to study. the food are most likely the same with indonesian food and its vary more.

case 2.
i moved to melbourne because i want to see how does it feel to study in australia, and i never regretted it. i met a lot of smart people who always aim high and inspire me to do the same, i can show you how my grades are different in malaysia and in melbourne. other things are that in melbourne, i find that the culture is a lot different and i really like open culture because i am skeptical and free thinker. and lastly, the standard of marking is totally different. in malaysia, definition is very important, while in australia, examples and application will guarantee high marks. in melbourne, u'll feel that it is very indonesian. there are a lot of indonesian students and there are a lot of indonesian food so u wont miss home a lot, BUT its not the same if you go to brisbane or perth

case 3.
some of my friends are studying in singapore and i will not recommend you to go there if you re the type of person who cant stand competition. besides, its not my fav country in terms of culture. but i do believe that singapore is a good place to study just that sometimes stress can be very tough to handle.

now from 3 cases above, i hope u can think of the country that u want to go.. anywhere is possible, my advise: try to go to the country that has less indonesian to practice better on how to start a living.. it is really cool.


3. desired major or big names?
here's some mistakes that a lot of people always make. we always choose big names over desired major. and frankly i always think thats wrong. i hate it when people said "i heard monash is good" or "i never heard of QUT before" or stuff. and i do feel the pressure that sometimes parents (or friends of parents) want their children to get a good degree. but here's what i think, i think what matters most is that u can get the degree that you want rather than unwanted degree under big names. hell with big names. hell with what people think of a university. if you can get what you want, why not? you choose what you want. not them!! and u deserve something special! and here's my case with monash. people think monash is good and some people think that everythin in monash is good. for example, i know that monash is good with engineering, but i dunno about art. so dont just choose monash because of their big names! try other uni! and in my opinion, i do think sometimes big name is not equals to good teaching program. big names equals to high standard of marking.
example: i have this lecturer, lets call her mrs.black (no, its not racist at all =p). she is a lecturer for my third year unit. and to be honest, i dont think she is a good lecturer. i mean.. she doesnt even know how to teach. but hell, her marking is very strict. i failed my final exam because when i look at my exam she said "ok u lose marks on this this and this" and i was like.. "wtf black, u cant teach properly and yet u give this high standard of marking? i think i can even teach u how to teach"
and thats my case with some lecturers and it happens a lot! so really consider this: is big name really important? is big name equal to high standard of teaching?


4. dont let agents tell you what to do. you tell em what to do!!
now this is really important: agent!! i know how agents work, so dont let em fool you, i said this as a guy who dont trust agents a lot. sometimes agents will come and say this: what major do you want, and when u say "business in australia" and they'll simply say monash, rmit, bla bla bla. why dont they say something about QUT or Griffiths? coz they got higher fee from certain universities. and they usually say this: we know that monash is excellent in this area bla bla bla. now ask them this: "are you saying this as a marketing agent or are you saying this as a former student?"
here's my case with agency:
so when i chose to study in malaysia to study business, the agent only said "ok we'll handle it" now that sentence is really good to hear, coz u dont have to handle anything. and frankly i really didnt handle anythin. all i knew is that im going to malaysia, sunway to study business. i didnt even know which uni until i got there. i thought that was nice, i didnt do any works, they did all the works and we didnt pay anything. and i realized it now that agents are evil, they didnt care about us actually. they only care about getting u to an education, they didnt ask u what you really want, but me, i care a lot about what you wanna do. and thats why i made this blog to let you know what i want you guys to know. so remember, dont let em tell u what to do, you tell em what u want!! and let em do it good!!


5. know your limit
here's the mini cherry on the top of sundae. know your limit. as i said before, big name sometimes equals to higher standard of marking not teaching. so know your limit. if you dont think that u can join monash, then join other uni. dont force yourself or u'll ended up struggling not to get good marks, but struggling to pass. remember that u can get higher education not only in a good uni like monash, mel-u, or unsw. u can also get good education in deakin or rmit. trust me there are a lot of decent uni out there. the level of education is high now.


now thats all the factors that i can think about as in for now. u know i really appreciate it if you guys can spread this to all your friends looking for higher education now. i hope it really helps u guys and i appreciate feedbacks and comments. and i always like to say this:

we deserve more, so we need to know more.



hope it helps u guys and ur frens.. cheers!!

live your life to the fullest!!

now here's a topic that bothers me all week... a friend of me asked me this during a conversation on facebook:

mr.h: hey u know what, i ve been thinking. i want to bet very successful by studying engineering, i want to be a very famous engineer someday
w: yea? how r u gonna do that?
mr.h: well.. i'll concentrate on my study. i'll stop playing around. i'm 20 now. time to get serious.
w: wow.. yea? and u like it like that?
mr. h: no.. but i think i can focus on my goal by doin that
w: live your life buddy.
mr.h: what do u mean live ur life? i want to contribute sumthin to the world here. i want to be known for somethin when i died. and thats life is all about to live for.
w: do u have any frens other than me?
mr.h: well no.. i mean.. i came here (Vancouver) to study. i dun need friends as in for now.
w: uh uh.. i dont think thats a good idea about how u "live ur life"
mr.h: and i suppose u have a point?
w: well yea.. i have my own point on how i live my life... and here's how

u see.. live is about something.. being famous, getting ur goals achieved, fulfill your dreams. but u do have to remember. there's so much that life has to offer. i'll tell u a story and i heard this from someone that has been an inspiration for me. but its my version tho. this story came from turkey.

a man is in seek for the meaning of life, and one day he asked to the wiseman about how do u live ur life. and the wiseman simply said "okay.. meet me tomoro at the bar and bring a spoon and a bottle of honey". and this man thinks "wow this guy is a freak.. honey and spoon..? god i hope not what im thinkin".
and the next day, he meets the wiseman at the bar with a spoon and a bottle of honey. and the wiseman said "now fill the spoon with honey and bring this to my place as fast as u can without dropping any of the honey". and fyi, the wiseman lives really far away, but the man thinks he can do it fast.. lets do it fast! so the man brings the spoon to the wiseman REALLY FAST without dropping any of the honey. and he asked "hey wiseman. i did it really fast right? and i suppose i get my reward?" and the wiseman replied "ok.. now.. did u see the statute of liberty during ur way here? did u see the amazing magician performing right at the corner of the street? did u see the cute dogs when u passed the park? and did u see the hot girls opened the door to my house for u?" the man said no and said "i was focusing on the spoon and honey here so they didnt drop"
heres the conclusion, men always race with time, they scared that they wont have enough time on their life to fulfill their dreams (which is why MLM is really popular) and that makes people tend to only focus on what they after as fast as they can. but when u focus on your goals too much, u missed on so many beautiful points of life that happens around u. u live ur life to the fullest when u keep the balance between ur goals to bring the honey to the wiseman, but take some time to look at the statute of liberty, see the amazing magician, adore the cute dogs, and nail the chick in wiseman's house.
the point is, the balance achieving your goals and take whatever the world offers u, is what i meant by living my life. no matter how long it takes to achieve ur dreams, coz thats how long we want to live our life ;)



at least... thats what im doing now.. patience will pay off.. cheers!!

boys are boys

i was having some coffee and cakes in starbucks with the gang feat. sophie (her name is selvia but she wants us to call her sophie??). and we were having this conversation about how girls can so easily get big headed everytime guys act nice to them. so this case happened to my fren here, lets call him mr. x.
so mr.x is a very nice guy and he even acts, well... nicer to girls, which i considered as gentleman! and girls are like.. "wow this guy likes me.." and their head get bigger..
so we asked sophie about this and she said:

w: so we think, girls are ridiculous if they think so, it is reasonable but still.. their sensitivity drives me crazy sometimes. they started to think i like em.

s: well yea.. but i dont think so.. i think its normal for a guy to act nice.. maybe u guys re the one who get the wrong perception

w: really?

s: yea.. for sure.. i feel normal

w: uh-huh.. so when a guy acts really nice.. u will be like.. nothing at all?

s: yeap

w: well are you really a girl?

s: wtf?? of course i am... well its really normal.. say if u are the one who.. lets say a girl act really nice with you.. what do you think?

w: well...

s: you think she likes you?

w: no

s: see.. its actually...

w: i think it's because i'm cool

s: ....
(the gang laughs with thumbs up)

s: i find it really dificult to communicate with you guys..


--

i miss my malaysian club life

so i m sitting here listening to some songs that i want to prepare for tomorrow as me and my friends are going to lake entrance. i open my ipod and there's a playlist named "my fav club songs" and i sort it by my rating.. as i listen to this, my memory goes back to the time when i used to go club in malaysia. it was really happening, really fun, really hot n sexy, really ME!!
alcohol, great musics, friends and some random hotties and cinko around.. i really miss it.. dont even try to compare it with the clubs here. i went to club here like 3 times and only 1 club so far that i will rate as "decent". the rest... omg kill me now...

what i hate most about melbourne

ok here's the thing.. im maybe weak.. but believe me.. tropical people dont belong here!!
heres what happened to me just a week ago..

part 1
so i was walking down the street.. with my frens.. goiong to dinner.. and suddenly rain dropped.. i was like.. ow snap.. here goes.. so wore my hoodies on.. and 5 steps ahead.. it stopped!! i mean.. literally 5 steps.. i didnt exaggerate this.. i mean.. yea probably a bit hahaha but seriously.. some steps later it stopped.. so i put off my hoodie and u know what.. exactly 3 mins later.. the rain dropped heavily.. i was like.. what kind of people can live in a place like this?

part 2
it was 3 am.. and i had just finished my assignment (how hardworking is this guy huh?).. and i tried to sleep.. until suddenly... ngoanggggggg.. ngoaanggggggggg.. the wind blowed all of sudden.. i checked the weather and it was like 30 km/h.. bad news is.. it really was noisy so i couldnt sleep.. and the worst thing is that it didnt stop until 1pm the next day... so i didnt sleep well!!..

now heres what makes melbourne a living hell
1. the weather is never a certain.. u can go outside with an umbrella coz its raining but the next 5 mins sun shined strongly that u wish u wear only a shirt.

2. its bloody cold at winter.. and the wind is so strong coz melbourne is actually a coastal area.. and the wind blows from artic sea!!

3. the wind the wind and the wind!!


now for those people who will say this: "told ya not to come to australia" i'll say this.. i enjoyed my life here but for god's sake im a tropical man who loves tropical island and tropical girl with tropical fruit undre tropical sunshine!! i love this place..!! but still its a living hell to me!!


i guess i love hell?

The youth list – or Murtaugh list

Have u guys ever watch ‘The Bucket List’? It’s a movie starring Morgan Freeman and Jack Nicholson. In this movie, these 2 guys created a list of things they need to do before they die. I am 20 now and I really want to do something really great before I die. So as I’m still so far away from that stage (unless-god forbid-someone kill me tomorrow) so I’m creating the list of things I have to do before I get old (or it is called the Murtaugh List in How I Met Your Mother. How old is OLD? Maybe 30? Or lets set the time to… before I get married? So I’ll put some things here, and I might need u guys to CHALLENGE me. Yeap, that’s right. CHALLENGE ME!!

I’ll try to do it and make a check list under a section of my blog down there. And I will check it once I’ve done it. But, the list has to be:

  1. Attainable – u probably can but u wont
  2. Challenging – u probably can or cant do it so u want me to do it
  3. Not death risk (please don’t) – no fire burning my body as a challenge
  4. Not going to destroy my image – u cant ask me to yell at an old people
  5. It has to make sense – u cant ask me to have a kid at the age of 22
  6. Memorable – “remember that time when winson…”
  7. A bit crazy or funny – I need to be shameless lol
  8. Part of living the life to the fullest – it’s fun, it’s crazy and it’s our youth baby!!

So I need u guys to put your challenges in the comment thread below and I wont take all. I will limit it to 25… wait erm… 20. Ah no, I’ll take 30 and if I do 25, I’m awesome but if I do 30, I’m super awesome ;p

So here is the youth list so far:

1. Get 5 different dates to 5 different weddings

2. Do skydiving (submitted by Wina - she really wants to kill me)

3. Sing in the street for money (or we call it “ngamen”)

4. Go to 2 different dates in a night (woo-hoo)

5. Act drunk and go to ladies room

I will update this, as soon as I finish a challenge, I’ll put the picture (if there are pictures) or any evidence and I’ll check the list on my blog.. so follow me on this blog and I swear it’ll be damn entertaining for ya..

so think bout it and gimme a damn good challenge fellas!!

things that I want to have in my future house

I was bored all night and I cant sleep so I decided to chat wif some friends and he said that he wants to have a great garden in his house later on. So I was wandering… hmmm what do I want to have in my house later?

So… here goes:

Mini bar

Yeap, first things that came to my mind: party and drink. I always need this, I love to drink especially with my friends around. Well if I have this in my house I can invite u guys to come over to taste my new mix of cocktails maybe?


Closet

I am so into fashion but not really a fashionable guy (I do think too fashionable makes a guy so gay) so I might need this to put all my fancy cloths and suits? And shoes of course. So it’s on the list.


Garage like a showroom

This is one of my dream to have a garage that looks like a showroom. Not that I want to have lots of cars, but I do have some dream cars in mind. And they’ll look awesome with this garage.


Home gym

I’m very aware of health and I want to stay fit so I want to work out in the place that is very convenient. And there’s no place like home, so why not?


Multi functional basement

This is the best part. I really want to have a basement that can be use for everything. Karaoke, party, game night, u name it. But most importantly, to hang out with friends and family.


Living room that full of sky

I want my house to be a lil bit romantic and comfy, so I want to have a living room that has the sky view. Means I need a big window in my living room so that I can clearly see the sky at night and full of lights in the afternoon. Sounds cool eh?


So what do u want to have in ur future house?

just a luck

what a day.. went to berwick to do 3 hours seminar today.. when i got there.. there is no lecture..
i managed to go around and see what's going on.. until i received an email:

"as i told u last week.. i will not be around this week.. hope to see u again next week..."

BIATCH! i didnt come last week thats why i wanna meet u up for assignment! u shouldve told me earlier.. the email came just one hour before the lecture.. it came when i was in train..!!

so....

i went back home and spent 3 valuable hours of my lifetime..

first day in melbourne!!

hey guys!!
how's life??
happy valentine to y'all!!
finally im in melbourne!! hahaha
connected to better internet and here goes my first blog in 2009 =p
happy valentine by the way.. hows ur valentine?
i got my chocolate from someone.. did u get one?

anyway.. so my first day in melbourne was on 13th midnight.. i havent got any place to stay.. so.. kheno and xintia (frens from my hometown) brought me to a place where i can stay for a while.. so they brought me to Nagalita's house.. Nagalita is my senior when i was in sunway (so world is not that big).. the house is quite nice and comfy as well.. better than monash condo.. even though i sleep at the living room (seriously!!).. so.. the next day.. which is the valentine day.. kheno and xintia brought me around the town.. and introduced me to some of their frens (guess im bothering their valentine =p big thanx mates!!!).. . so.. to me.. melbourne is a very great city!! it is beautiful yet modern!! i'd say the life here is better than what i had in sunway.. (but not the frens of coz.. u guys rocks! =P).. the weather is cool.. and pretty cold at night.. and everything seems fun here.. so i managed to find some differences here and in malaysia.. have a look and comment! hehehe

1. the city is so neat. clean and better organized than in malaysia... and indonesia.. dun even try to compare it..
2. the homeless people here is more talented than in malaysia.. they can do dance and art stuffs to get money!!
3. the portion of the food is damn big!! i ate the schnitzel (like a chicken chop in malaysia).. and it was like.. 2.5 times the size of chicken chop.. for 10 bucks!!
4. u can see people making out everywhere (on the street, in a train, in a toilet, in a shop, in a fitting room!!). in malaysia, someone might yell at u for doing this
5. u can see many people from different races like chinese, indian, greek, caucassian, and even malays!
6. more gays!!
7. they talk like they yell
8. they will greet u like.."hows it going?" even if dun not know them if u accidentally look each other in the eyes
9. the traffic is better.. but pretty frustating at some point
10. more fashionable guys and girls.. and.. some are topless in town.. wtf?

so that's it!! i read leng's blog before im wrote this and... the video was pretty funny.. hahahaha... nice blog leng!!! anyway.. hope that i can sleep well tonight... happy valentine again guys...